Honesty? Why encourage it?

If you have been raised to believe in honesty people always seem to love it when you tell them the truth except when it comes to traditions you hate. Then they make such a big deal about it and whine and nag you about it. This is the exact reason why our society is messed up- people being raised in honesty and good values and still not being able to do as they please (as stated in the US constitution). The people who love this sort of thing almost always seem to be parents. Well to solve this problem it is my belief that all children should be state property- raised by the government so they have more freedom and aren't just raised into traditions they probobly won't like later on.